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Wednesday March 10th 2010

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The One Thing I’ve Learned

I was once asked to describe, in a nut­shell, what I had learned from being a pro­ba­tion offi­cer.  I couldn’t, at the time, give a con­cise answer, but now I know what I would say.  After close to forty years of work­ing with offend­ers, try­ing to assist, coerce, rea­son and pun­ish them into reha­bil­i­ta­tion, I am con­vinced of one thing.  Peo­ple have free will.  Bar­ring a men­tal or phys­i­cal inabil­ity, they will do any num­ber of things for any num­ber of rea­sons, but they will, for the most part, do what they want.

 

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The Push-Pull of Teaching Faith

IStock_000000493120XSmall A dis­traught mother called me one day to ask for advice regard­ing her teenage daugh­ter.  She said the girl was rebelling, mostly over the church they attended, and added, “We can’t get her to come around to our way of think­ing, and last week she even ran away for two days.”  In try­ing to explain the fam­ily dynam­ics, she said, “ She thinks we’re awful, that what we believe is totally ridicu­lous, and we don’t know what to do.”

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